Cooler then thou

I can't catch the cool. Constantly out of grasp. I'm not even sure if its real. If I ever tell you I don't care about it, make sure to slap me and tell me I'm a fucking liar. I want it. They want it. You want it. How many people get it? How many people get to the point where at any point and time, some random individual could look at a person and say, " that's a cool motherfucker."? Or some other pronoun. Is it a role that you're born into or something that you develop and eventually become? Does it even matter? Is it not uncool to chase cool? I can't tell.